

However, there are times when the mischievous behaviour needs to be curbed. Before long they become nostalgic memories only to be recalled wistfully! Like all things in life, their childish innocence and attitudes will fade away and disappear with age and time. So, instead of curbing and discipling them, why not wholeheartedly enjoy their pranks? Especially those of our daughters for they won’t last forever or even for too long! Enjoy the mischief as long as it is safeĪs long as their naughty behaviour and mischievous attitude doesn’t border on indiscipline and show signs of malice, personal attacks or hostility I will definitely endorse it.īefore long, most children irrespective of gender outgrow their naughty patterns and mischievous ways! The children easily become unfamiliar with their own naughty facets. In fact, it is regarded as an important developmental milestone! I would hate to discriminate based on gender and will certainly welcome and entertain the naughty ways and delightful pranks of both girls and boys. I see the mischief and inimitable pranks of my daughter as an expression of her creativity, imagination and infinite energy! These are typical of children both boys and girls and a rather normal part of growth. Some lessons leave permanent scars on the minds and bodies of young girls and it becomes impossible for them to recover and return to normal lives. Patriarchal societies are quick to deplore, vilify and even relegate such girls to a life time of contempt and defamation. Our societies don’t just frown upon such girls but teach them to undermine their self-confidence and self-worth. And to see a girl who is just as strong-headed, witty or even naughty is simply not acceptable to the society. It is socially contradictory and politically incorrect! Mischief and pranks are usually associated to boys. These men never attempt to analyse or review their behaviour to figure out if such misplaced notions of their masculinity and sexuality are justified or not. Never once do they pause to introspect and question their own thoughts or their long-held convictions which are biased towards women. Male-chauvinists feel righteous about their entitlements. Never miss real stories from India's women.
